A friend mentioned it one evening, or a video slipped into your feed, and the question has stayed with you since. How to become an escort occasionally, without letting it take over everything? You have a degree to finish or work you enjoy, and you would simply like to add something to it: evenings of a different kind, journeys, and encounters of your own choosing. People sometimes say escort girl. We simply say escort. This article tells you what it looks like, seen from your side, what the activity brings and what it demands of you. The criteria and the stages of the selection have a page of their own. This one is about the life that goes with it.
Becoming an Escort Occasionally, in Brief
- The principle. From time to time, you keep a gentleman company for a dinner, a night or a journey, at his hotel or at his home, never anywhere of your own. Intimacy belongs to the evening, the girlfriend experience sets the tone, and you stay in control of the moment.
- The formats. Two to four hours close to home, or a whole night. The night is the most frequent format, and the rule as soon as travel is involved. A few days away, now and then. How often is up to you, with no minimum.
- The lead time. Bookings arrive several days, and often several weeks, before the date. Nobody rings you on a Tuesday at six for eight o'clock.
- The framework. The agency knows the client or his references, and it has settled the place, the time, the duration and the fee before mentioning it to you. All you have to do is say yes or no. We have described this daily routine in an article written for our clients.
- What stays private. An assumed first name on the site, your face absent from every photograph on the public site, and a file read only by the people who conduct the selection.
- The steps. A form, a first opinion usually within two days, a questionnaire, two interviews and a photo shoot, about a month in all. The detail of the criteria and stages is on our casting page.
One Saturday, Told from Your Side
One Tuesday, you receive a message from the agency. A regular we know well will be in a city an hour's flight from you on the Saturday, and he would like to have dinner and spend the night in your company. The hotel, the time and the terms are already settled. You look at your week and you say yes.
On the Saturday, you push open the door of the hotel bar a little before the hour, the way you arrive at a date you have chosen. He stands as you walk in. The first drink is for finding each other and dinner is for liking each other. You talk about his day, about yours, about a book, about a country he once lived in, and the next table sees only two people who get along well. Then you go up with him. The night keeps what the evening promised, a desire born well before and shared without haste, a sensuality that gives as much as it receives, and a rhythm the two of you find together, like everything else.
In the morning, breakfast lingers, the city is there beneath the window, and a taxi takes you to the airport. On Monday you are back at the office or in the lecture hall, and nobody can quite account for your smile. During the day, we send you a message to ask how the evening went. We like to hear it from you, and we keep it in mind for the times to come.
What You Will Find in It
Attention, to begin with, and of a rare quality. The men who come to us have standing, manners and a liking for women with character. They know how to entertain, how to choose an address and how to keep a conversation going until late, and they treat you as a guest because that is what you are.
Then come the places and the departures. The grand hotels of Europe and beyond, the restaurants one books months ahead, a flight taken on a Thursday for three days in a capital you did not know, in the company of someone who wants you to discover it.
Pleasure above all, and of more than one kind. The pleasure of being awaited and desired by a man who chose you among others. The pleasure of a dress that finally finds its occasion, of a conversation that flows, of a glance that lingers. And the most intimate of all, the pleasure of seduction and of play, given and received, with someone you will have accepted.
And lastly, the means for plans that were waiting, a journey you kept putting off, a term of study elsewhere or a little breathing space day to day, without giving up any of the rest. The fees for each booking are public, you will find them on our rates page.
What It Asks of You
Telling you only the good side would be easy. Here is the other one, as the women who have started describe it, because you are better off knowing it before the form than after.
- Waiting, at the start. A profile just put online has to be discovered, and the regulars, two clients in three with us, have their habits and take their time. The first booking is weeks away rather than days. The wait rewards those who stay.
- Monday mornings at eight. A night ends late, and the morning does not always linger. You have to enjoy the evenings, and hold up the next day, in a lecture or at the office, without anything showing.
- A secret to carry. Your hosts count on your discretion, and those around you, as a rule, will know nothing. Some carry it lightly, others less so. Better to know it beforehand.
- A no you must be able to say. You decline a booking that does not suit you, with no need to explain, and a plain no is better than a maybe. Once there, too, what you do not want does not happen.
- A yes you must keep. An availability you have given stands. The man who books arranges his days around you, and the agency has given its word along with yours.
- Nerves. Nobody arrives entirely relaxed at a first drink with a stranger, even one chosen, even one expected. It passes as soon as the conversation starts, because your host is often used to these moments and knows how to make them easy. What he notices next is what our article on the high class escort describes: a woman who listens as much as she talks and who enjoys being there.
What They Say About It
After a few months online, we like to ask each new escort what surprised her. The same answers come back.
- The conversation. They feared not knowing what to say, and the opposite happens. These men have lived and travelled, and they enjoy talking with a woman who has things to say.
- The preparations. Someone chose an address, booked a table and thought about the evening for days. They had not expected it to matter so much.
- Intimacy. They thought they would have to play a part. There is play, of course, and it is what gives these nights their spice. Desire is often shared, sometimes less so, but always with consideration and respect. Many took to it sooner than they would have believed.
- A new confidence. They have dined opposite men who run companies without lowering their eyes, crossed the lobbies of grand hotels as if they were their own, said no to what they did not want. It lasts, and it serves them everywhere afterwards, at work, in a lecture hall, in life.
- Monday. They thought it would show. Nobody suspects a thing.
Becoming an Escort: Is It for You?
Before filling in the form, take the time for a conversation with yourself. We will have the same one together, at the interview.
- Do you enjoy meeting strangers? Picture a dinner with a man you met an hour earlier, in a language you learnt at school, and then the night with him. If the idea appeals to you, the rest will follow.
- Do you speak English? Nearly all our clients travel and speak it. French and other languages open other doors too.
- Does your diary have room? An evening is planned several days ahead and often runs on until morning, and a stay takes more. It is not about being free all the time but about finding the time every so often, and about being free to go.
- Does discretion come naturally to you? We owe it to you, and you will owe it to the men you accompany.
- Are you at ease with your sensuality? Not on paper, in life. Seduction is part of the game and it is only played well if you enjoy it. Having few taboos, or none, and a wish to broaden your experience is an undeniable asset.
- Why now? A little adventure, some curiosity or a little extra income are all good reasons. Money is not enough on its own.
There is no right answer to give. We simply want yours.
Three Things That Decide an Application
No experience is needed, and having some is no obstacle either. We read everything that reaches us and we reply to each of you. Roughly one application in ten leads to a profile online, and the others are not turned down for any fault of theirs: more often than not, what we are looking for and what they offer simply do not meet at that moment. Among the applications that could go through, three things make the difference.
Precision. The form asks concrete questions, so answer them concretely. A line on your languages, another on what you do with your days, two sincere sentences on what brings you here. We are not looking for a covering letter but for a person, and she shows through in the details.
Recent, true-to-life photographs. Take them this month rather than last year, without filters or retouching, in simple light. Only the team that reads the applications sees them, and they serve one purpose: to know that the woman we will meet is the one in the pictures.
Reliability, from the very first exchange. An e-mail that gets a reply, a call kept at the agreed hour, a question asked rather than a silence. Small things on the face of it, but they tell us, better than any form, how you will be on the day.
If you already do this, independently or elsewhere, say so in the form, your experience counts. What the agency changes for you is quickly summed up: clients we know, bookings that arrive in advance, fees agreed beforehand and a phone that can stay switched off at midnight. You keep your independence, and we favour representing you exclusively, which we will talk about at the interview.
Taking a Break, or Stopping
Studies come to an end, work takes up more room, a relationship begins. Your life moves and this activity has to follow, never the reverse. A break takes one message: your profile comes off the site for as long as you wish and returns at your signal. Stopping is done the same way. We then withdraw your page and, if you wish, we erase everything, file and photographs, in keeping with our privacy policy. Nothing holds you, at any point, except the wish to continue.
One thing, on the other hand, takes time: becoming known. The first bookings lead to others, and the regulars return to the women they know. Give yourself several months. At that pace, the activity becomes what it should be, an interlude you look forward to.
If you recognised yourself somewhere between the Tuesday message and the Monday smile, read our casting page now, its criteria and its stages, then fill in the form once you are ready, with photographs taken that day. We will read you attentively, and the rest will be said in person.
